7 characteristics of a loser...

Let’s face it, there are many losers in this world, and the sad fact is that these people are not aware that they are. While stepping above failure is a prerequisite of success, wallowing in it makes one a loser. Everywhere we can see people putting much premium on their ignorance rather than advancing themselves through self analysis and action. Instead of making an effort on zeroing in on the causes of their...

Effective methods of achieving a healthy body...

A healthy body is the bedrock of our well-being, without taking care of our bodies we won’t be able to fully enjoy the gift of life. It is sad to know that in this present time many take for granted the importance of having an able and strong body. There are many factors that have contributed to the steady corruption of our health and in my observation the advancement of our present time has spawned a lifestyle...

5 lies you should never fall for...

We are brought up in life with certain beliefs that we blindly follow, and in our efforts to go in parallel with such beliefs we pattern our every actions according to its principles. The problem though is that most of what we believe is nothing more than big lies. In our belief that something good will come from the erroneous principles we hold, we get disappointed when things go differently. But rather than...

What is essential is invisible to the eye. Are you...

Most of us are very vocal about our discontent in life. Instead of being grateful for the things we already enjoy we seek satisfaction on the things we don’t have. It has become our habit to long for things we think are essential yet little is our awareness that we already have the things we need to make our life worth while. Just how come we’ve become blind to these things essential? Could it be that our...

Change the course of your life by questioning your...

Have you ever questioned the absoluteness of the things you held as truths? Did you care to verify the veracity of the principles from which you base your decisions? Are there circumstances in your life wherein you become confused because the very truth you dearly hold has abandoned you? Human beings are very stubborn when it comes to their beliefs. Once we take something as truth, it’s hard for us to turn...

How to make a difference in your life...

If you are like most people who are bored with their mediocre lives living each day repeating their yesterdays task then join me in this short discourse and find out how you can make a difference in your life. All of us have an inner yearning to change something in our lives. But due to our stubbornness, laziness and ignorance we become clueless as to how to make a way to enforce the changes we want. As a...

What we should teach our children...

One mistake I have observed most parents commit with regards to their children is failing to teach them the important virtues they must learn to lead a noble life. While some of us go about correcting the misdeed of our children we have failed to instill unto them the necessary knowing to guide their path long after they depart from our influence. In our present time, more of our children fall on the wrong path...

I made a mistake… what will I do?...

Mistakes are something we go queasy about. In every instance we commit them it’s very hard for us to assume the proper response to assuage its consequences. Though the appropriate approach is thru acknowledgment, we prefer to cloak our mistakes by means of denial. Despite the nagging of guilt, we chose to be adamant in excusing ourselves from the errors we’ve made. Although none of us wants to be put in a...

Things I Wish Everybody Knew About Life...

This is a guest post from John Anyasor, author of  HiLife2B. Wouldn’t it be great if there was a “know-it-all’s guide to life”? If we knew our entire future (when to expect a death in the family, when you’ll meet your first love, or when you can expect to be depressed) how exactly would we react to it? Would we be completely prepared for all the pitfalls and the breakthroughs so much...

Dealing with disappointment...

How I wish I could immune myself to the disappointments of life, but no matter how I much I try to protect myself, disappointment find its way. Despite my efforts of planning, anticipating and scrupulous dissection of all the important aspects of my everyday living, unwanted consequences abounds—leaving me reeling with questions and frustration. Even if I try my best to avoid its clasp, I’m always caught up...