3 insidious attitudes that’s causing you misery...

Believe it or not, most of our miseries are caused by us; no matter how much we try to point it to something, we are actually the ones making it. Our sources of problems are not really found on the things we think have caused it; rather, the insidious attitudes that we allow to manifest are the true culprits that agitates our sense of complacency. And unless we can identify, acknowledge and resist these certain...

Not measuring up? Don’t let them manipulate you!...

All of us have abilities to make the best out of the things we do in life; but oftentimes, we hinder ourselves of such because we tend to focus on the expectations others claim upon us: this propensity I call measuring up. Instead of putting our minds on our unique gift in handling things, events and situation, we allow ourselves to be manipulated by the measures setup by people around us. As a consequence, we have...

The only thing that can conquer FEAR...

Fear has always been a powerful force that dominates our being whenever our sense of complacency is compromised. Overcoming fear is difficult since it is hardwired within our system, but this does not mean we should surrender and allow it dominate our mind—we must learn how to deal with it. But how to conquer fear remains a great question. Once we feel fear, our problem solving mechanism is put to halt; anxiety and false...

Want to crack the secret of peace and happiness?...

  In my moments of despair or boredom I find momentary delight in the numbing (and ecstatic) spell of my favorite beverage—beer. Not only do I experience peace and happiness, I also found a bit of clarity amongst the sea of confusion. Nope. This post is not about beer. I have just used the object of beer as one avenue over which to experience joy. There are many of us groping along the how to happiness paths; we ask...

Working From Home — Making It As Wonderful A...

Greetings my valued readers. This interesting post contributed by a fellow blogger Lloyd Burrell is very helpful for those who are struggling to work from home. I hope you’ll assimilate the wisdom herein–you’ll learn a lot. I’ve been working from my home office for over 10 years. For me, it has been nothing short of wonderful, though it has taken a few tweaks to achieve this . The relief...

Everyday decisions that wastes our life...

“The clock is running. Make the most of today. Time waits for no man. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why it is called the present.” Everyday we live our lives repeating the one that have passed, not realizing we are in a loop.  We wake up in the morning thinking of what has been—and confine ourselves back in. On other occasion, we torture ourselves of...

Fed up with your job? Stop torturing yourself...

For the rest of us, having a job is a necessity, but it also espouses work stress, anxiety and dissatisfaction. At certain point we get fed up and want to quit. Yet we can’t. Deadlines, pressure, conflict, boredom, annoying co-workers, twisted work culture, corrupt bureaucracy, egoistic boss, politics, etc, all add up to make our work life undesirable. But since our job provides us—and our loved ones—with...

A lesson in goal-getting: How did I lose belly fat...

Eliminating belly fat has been one of the major concerns of many people, and this is the reason why many are being conned into buying commercialized ways and means of how to get rid of belly fat. There are those belly fat exercise machines or burn belly supplements over which desperate individuals purchase with the belief that it will work. Never did these people realize that the secret to eliminating their fat...

Magic and the perception of impossibility...

Whenever we witness magic performances done on stage, street or television, we are always mystified at how they are able to perform such impossible feats. We see them defy gravity, science, or even logic; then we ask ourselves: do these magicians have certain mystical powers that enable them to do the unimaginable? To some it may be so, but to skeptics the question remains—how are they able to do it? As I watch...

3 powerful lessons I have learned by just TRYING...

Back then when ignorance dominates my reason I used to fear exploring what I find uncertain; be it asking the girl I like for a date or asking my boss for a raise or talking to my neighbor about their loud music, I’m always intercepted by the fear that I will somehow fail to get a favorable response. Perhaps it is my mind’s tendency to avoid rejection and conflict that prevents me from making any effort to get...