Not measuring up? Don’t let them manipulate you!...

All of us have abilities to make the best out of the things we do in life; but oftentimes, we hinder ourselves of such because we tend to focus on the expectations others claim upon us: this propensity I call measuring up. Instead of putting our minds on our unique gift in handling things, events and situation, we allow ourselves to be manipulated by the measures setup by people around us. As a consequence, we have...

The only thing that can conquer FEAR...

Fear has always been a powerful force that dominates our being whenever our sense of complacency is compromised. Overcoming fear is difficult since it is hardwired within our system, but this does not mean we should surrender and allow it dominate our mind—we must learn how to deal with it. But how to conquer fear remains a great question. Once we feel fear, our problem solving mechanism is put to halt; anxiety and false...

How to resolve money issues in marriage...

Money problems can oftentimes be a very big issue in marriage. If one or both couples are not financially well-off, problems in relationship in terms of money issues may arise. Sometimes it can lead to marriage conflict resulting in unwanted breakage between couples if not resolved early on. Financial problems have always been a part of everyday struggles for majority of us. Interestingly, when it comes to money, we...