Life is all lessons…ignorance is not a destiny…
When dealing with the woman we aspire or care about, I have learned some reliable approaches over which we could do—with sincerity—to gain their trust, favor, approval and love. While there are some jerky men out there who think that good looks and cool moves are the way to a woman’s heart, they’ll be disappointed to know that most women put much premium on men who are sincere, sensitive and romantic. Sounds like old school but it is the truth.
Typically, when a man wants a woman—either for a mate, a date, attention, love—these questions they find as mirage:
How to get girls
How to get a woman to like you
Making a woman want you
What a woman wants in a man
Many have gone the wrong way to answer these questions. It is common for most to adopt material and superficial means to address these basic “conundrums.” Though I cannot deny the fact that such a strategy works, I find it shallow and ineffective in the long run. My answer to the above questions is really simple: be like a woman!
Whoa, not on the outside of course. What I mean is to think and feel like them.
Typically, men have their natural tendency to appear cold, selfish or uncaring—very much different from that of a woman. While it’s biological evolution that dictates the behavior of men (and women), he must learn to be aware of this. A man must realize that he has a feminine side and he must learn to use it to communicate with his counterpart—which is the opposite sex. By approaching a woman using such side, he would not have a hard time gaining her appreciation.
As there are things important for us men, so it is for women. To get their appreciation or attention, a man must learn to be sensitive of the things that make an impact on them. For example, woman needs to be treated with respect and courtesy, therefore being a gentleman before her will give her the impression that you recognize her sense of importance. Women really, really, appreciate this!
Aside from respect, woman put much premium on the following:
How they are physically perceived
Recognition of their feelings
Recognition of their efforts
Being loved
As an elaboration, let me just give some tips over which a man would be liked/appreciated/love/cherished by a woman—whether of intimate or a stranger.
Learn to listen to her ramblings
Help her with her chores
Be a gentleman
Cook for her
Compliment her on her looks
Give her a gift, however small
Be sincere
Keep your promises
Give her a rose and a hug
Be there for her, especially when she needs the most
Remember the special occasions important to her
Be thoughtful
Be honest
Be patient (especially when she goes shopping)
Never hit her (even when she hits you)
Such are just some example that will capture a woman’s heart. The important thing to remember is to be sensitive to her feelings and aspirations, then act upon it. Follow her perspective and expectations—not yours, and you will always win her affection.
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