Comments on: 5 truths you need to know about married life

By: Aldo

Aldo — Tue, 03 May 2011 07:39:13 +0000

I do agree with your statement that marriage is a test of character. In this phase of life, there are two persons with each characteristic and will who live together and they must understand each other so they will not make any worse conflict. In this life, you will know the personality of your partner and you can learn many things from it. If you pass this kind of test, you can run and keep until then. If you are not able to survive, you will fail and it can bring any negative impact for your life.

By: Cole Powell

Cole Powell — Tue, 14 Dec 2010 18:11:42 +0000

married life is of course a very happy life, all you need to do is find some happiness deep inside yourself ~,~

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By: Vincent Ng- Conversation Arts

Vincent Ng- Conversation Arts — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 20:10:18 +0000

I haven’t married yet but I have been blogging about serious relationships. One thing I’ve realized is that commitment is doing the things you say you will do long after the feeling is gone. You’re right, that doesn’t mean being a martyr, it means that if you love your wife, you will need to change. You will need to grow and progress.

Keeping our feelings silent is not helpful. And you’re right it manifests itself into terrible unconscious action. But I’ve found that talking about the hard topics, facing the hard truth means that we are being our true self and expressing our true feelings.

I’ve found it hard on my relationship at times, but it has always made it better and more loving with my own girlfriend.

Great article again Walter.
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By: Bailey Ing

Bailey Ing — Thu, 10 Jun 2010 21:59:03 +0000

Hey Walter,

Thanks for such an open and honest sharing of your journey in your marriage. I’ve also been married recently too and I’ve learned that marriage is all about giving.

Yeah, that initial “romantic” period does fade away, but the next level of experience changes you deep down as a person. I know that my marriage is one of the reasons why I’ve stepped out of my comfort zone as you mentioned and is enabling me to be a better man!

Great post here Walter,

Bailey
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By: Walter

Walter — Sun, 30 May 2010 08:09:54 +0000

I think marriage is a beckon for self improvement. WE cannot grow if we limit ourselves on our comfort level. Marriage is a way to develop us to a better person.

By: Walter

Walter — Sun, 30 May 2010 08:03:45 +0000

Hey thanks Parker. I’m glad to have provided you with some useful insights.

By: Walter

Walter — Sun, 30 May 2010 08:02:32 +0000

I agree with your thoughts here Marko, especially accepting the imperfections of each other. Most relationship don’t work because of the stubbornness of each to accept the person of the other. Instead of extending understanding, each try to change the other. I believe that change comes only after acceptance.

By: Walter

Walter — Sun, 30 May 2010 07:58:58 +0000

Thank you Rob. Romantic marriage falters in time because its based on attraction. while arranged marriage is based on compatibility. No wonder arranged marriage is more successful than romantic marriage. But even so, no two person are the same. There will come a point when differences must be settled. When couples do love each other they will tend to listen to each other and grow together.

By: Walter

Walter — Sun, 30 May 2010 07:53:20 +0000

True indeed that marriage takes patience, perseverance, communication and faith. Unfortunately, most couple are not open to these virtues. They would rather be egoistic than to expand themselves from the challenges of marriage.