Comments on: Who is to blame?

By: Walter

Walter — Sat, 03 Apr 2010 00:21:20 +0000

Thank you for such a deep insight Hassan. Indeed, blaming does not have any benefit other than our own suffering. Relinquishing this negative attitude will give us the opportunity to realize our capacity to make a change.

By: Hassan

Hassan — Wed, 31 Mar 2010 12:37:32 +0000

when we fail to achieve any thing we balme three thing 1- an event and this so convenient, because here you got story and the story may be accurate but blaming will never empower you it give no power and reinforce the idea that the out side world controls you , 2- balme someone else , it might be your boss, you partner,your colleague, your your childern , 3- balming yourself will not make it better i didn’t mean don’t be responsible, when balme youreslf you are not being responsibel you are beating yourself up , when you are responsibel you can make change remember we are in charge about how we feel ,if you are not happy in area of your life change it , change your life condition ,you will never do that as long as you are balming someone else , what you got to do stop balming others be resposibel and take action to make a change

By: Walter

Walter — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 12:33:05 +0000

Hey, thanks a lot Sir. Hope to see you here again.

By: Hipolito M. Wiseman

Hipolito M. Wiseman — Sat, 20 Feb 2010 18:29:12 +0000

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By: Walter

Walter — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 13:25:12 +0000

You have an excellent advice here. Before tuning on to others we must first turn to ourselves.

By: Michael

Michael — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 23:25:00 +0000

But Alien ghost makes a good point, how do we balance not blaming others but not blaming self? If I admit a mistake, I find people become not forgiving, which they don’t have to, but viscious and blaming. We can, I don’t like to use the word destroy as Alien has, but we can end up feeling it was our fault 100% not the others and that to me is just as unfair as blaming the other person.

By: Walter

Walter — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 13:05:18 +0000

Well Mitch, that’s a good insight we all should consider. Thank you for contributing some light on this matter.

By: Mitch

Mitch — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 02:51:09 +0000

I think blame is one of the easiest things for any of us to do. Well, it’s hard for only children because we only have pretend friends to blame stuff on. lol

There’s this thing, however, where sometimes reality sounds like blame, and we have to be on guard for that. For instance, one might want to blame the president of a company for something an employee did, and the president would be correct in saying he or she didn’t have anything to do with something. It’s not dodging blame, it’s just telling the truth.
Mitch´s last blog ..Understanding Your Own Patterns

By: Golf

Golf — Sat, 30 Jan 2010 19:03:32 +0000

Before blaming others, we must analyze ourselves. We are responsible for what we are doing.
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By: Walter

Walter — Sat, 30 Jan 2010 00:45:02 +0000

Talking, complaining and blaming will lead us nowhere. Only by doing something productive can we ameliorate the negative circumstances that we perceive.